ANA DE VILLA SINGSON REMEMBERS!

     Sr. RegiVic has come to symbolize Assumption for me and for many of my batch mates in High School 1982.  She was serious, some might think strict, but if you looked closely enough she had a little twinkle in her eye that made you know that there was much love behind everything she said and did. 

 

      Once, she stopped me to chat.  With her serious face and serene way, she said that I was a smart girl.  That was nice, thank you very much!  But then she added, you are also a naughty girl, talking too much in class, testing the limits of authority (no need to get into details), plus a reminder.  Be careful that you don’t get suspended.  Uh oh!  I enjoyed school and never had any problem with academics.  She was telling me that there was so much more than good grades; there was deportment too, conduct:  sitting demurely in class, following rules like coming to school on time, et al, et al et al (No need to detail my little bits of naughtiness!).  And because she took notice, I took notice too and tried harder to behave like a worthy Assumptionist.

 

     Fast forward to our Silver Jubilee.  We had a retreat to kick off our Velada rehearsals.  There we were, back in Assumption, listening to the priest , remembering Fr. Reuter who presided over our high school retreats in Baguio.  Sr. Regivic sat quietly at the back, so quietly, I thought she had dosed off.  As we were shuffling out, she came to me and said “Ana, you were the only one taking notes.”  She wasn’t dosing, she was observing all of us, recording…all seeing as she was when we were still students. 

          I struggle to think of the last words we spoke of.  It happened after the MagnificART 2 live art auction held in Henry Sy Building after the Assumption Day Mass.  I was the auctioneer and was so busy selling, “budol-budol” as President Ola Regala called it, that I totally missed dinner.  As I was packing up the paintings and trying to look for food, there was no food left exept for Assumption tarts!  Sr. Ana Melocoton and Sr. RegiVic plied me with more and more tarts and after devouring a box, Sr. RegiVic asked “Do you want more?”  Then, when she and Sr. Ana tried to stay up with me so that I wouldn’t be alone while packing up the paintings and sculptures, I shooed them off…telling them “Go!  Go!  I am fine here.  Go and sleep!” 

Sr. RegiVic did go to sleep.  And I wish I had known that our Assumption tart exchange would be our last.  I would have said more meaningful things.  I would have told her:  Thank you for caring enough to see me, to know me, to counsel me.  And not just me, but my classmates as well.  Thank you for teaching us discipline, but only because you wanted us to be the best we could become.  Thank you for calling us out, but only because you had a better vision of us than we had of ourselves.  Thank you for always being you:  serene, unflappable, never raising your voice but compelling us to listen anyway just because you were you!


Heaven has a new angel!  Watch over us, Sr. RegiVic so that we don’t stray and be naughty, so that we  stay nice;  so that we behave as a true Assumptionist should: with discipline yet always full of love. 


Praying for your eternal repose as God cradles you in His loving embrace.